Crime Prevention Tips for Kids
I’m not a fear-monger, but parents, you have to know this: Every year, thousands of children are affected by violent crime. Some estimates put the number at thousands per day. It’s our job – our duty – to keep our kids safe. That doesn’t mean locking them in the house until they’re 25, but our responsibility does extend to teaching basic safety and crime prevention.
Even young children should know these basic safety precautions.
- Help your child learn their full name, phone number (including area code), and address (including city and state).
- Teach children how to call 911 (and when it’s appropriate) and how to use cell phones and pay phones.
- Teach your kids how to identify “safe” adults, like a police officer or security guard or teacher.
- Explain to your kids that they should never accept a ride, food, or gifts from someone they don’t know.
- Take logical safety precautions in public, like accompanying younger children to the bathroom.
- Teach your child the power of “no.” No one has a right to touch them if it makes them uncomfortable, and you will never, ever get angry if they tell you that someone has touched them, despite what that person might threaten.
- Designate a safe spot in your neighborhood, like a trusted friend’s house, to go to in case of emergency.
- Evaluate your neighborhood for areas of safety concern – wooded areas, poorly lighted areas, etc. – and then teach your children to be safe or avoid the area altogether. (Be realistic about this one; for example, you probably can’t prevent young adventurers from checking out the woods, but you can teach them forest safety.)
All kids step out on their own at some point, whether it’s to walk to the bus stop or run to a friend’s house. Part of our parental responsibility is teaching kids how to stay safe when we’re not around.
- Encourage your children to use the buddy system – walk and play with friends or classmates.
- Teach your kids to avoid solitary areas, like alleys and vacant buildings.
- With your kids, map out the safest routes to the bus stop, stores and friends’ houses. Explain that they shouldn’t take shortcuts and should always stick to this route.
- Explain the importance of alertness – even if they’re listening to music or chatting with a friend, your kids should be aware of their surroundings.
- Never talk to strangers (unless they’re designated “safe,” like police).
- Teach your child that if they sense danger, it’s okay to yell “help!” and find a safe adult. They don’t need to feel embarrassed.
- Ask your children to check in when they get home from school, if they’re planning to stay late, if they go to a friend’s house, etc.
- Listen up. Let your kids know that they can always talk to you without shame or embarrassment. Take their concerns and complaints seriously.
- Emphasize words and mediation over violence. Tell your children to always speak with an adult if they see children or adults with knives, guns or other weapons.
Avoiding Sexual Abuse
Don’t be embarrassed to speak to your children about their personal space and rights to their own bodies.
- Help your children understand that no one, not even a relative or authority figure, is allowed to touch them in a way that makes them uncomfortable.
- Talk to your kids everyday. Listen to their concerns and observe unspoken discomfort. Encourage conversation.
- Never shame or punish your child for confiding in you.
- Don’t force a child to sit on someone’s lap, or to hug or kiss someone if they don’t want to. This helps teach them that they have control over their own bodies.
- Remind your children not to talk to strangers.
- Keep alert to warning behaviors that could indicate sexual abuse. These may include increased anxiety, sudden hostility, and secretiveness, and can extend to physical symptoms such as bedwetting, nightmares, and genital irritation or pain.